Starting Today

Starting today, I will start posting my daily update on where I am at in life. Three days after turning 30 my wife of just over a year woke up one morning and told me that she felt nothing for me and was numb. We had lived together and dated for 5 years prior to getting married.

It's been 3 weeks now and I am living at a friends house and getting ready to pack my stuff and move out of our apartment as she has found a new apartment. So here's the deal, we are both in individual therapy and are meeting with a counselor in two weeks.

The purpose of this is to keep family, friends, co-workers and anyone else who cares about our relationship up-to-date on where we are.

Here are the issues:
-Drinking

Guess that's the main one.

Here are the goals:
-Eating
-Not Drinking
-Finding a new place to live
-Defining oneself as an individual and not based on a relationship